By Barbara Hewitt
This has been a rather reflective week for me, as I attended a funeral for Sandra, an extended family member. Although I always knew Sandra was wonderful and made a positive impact on many lives, she lived quite a distance from me so I didn’t often get to spend time with her. For that reason, it was especially rewarding to hear the many, many stories from people whose lives she touched through her work. Sandra was an inspiration to many. She was a single mother early in life, and there was no time (or financial resources, for that matter) to think about attending college when she graduated from high school. She worked hard, two and three jobs in the early years, to make ends meet and provide for her three children. Imagine our surprise (and pride!) therefore, when she earned her college degree in her 60s! She truly taught us all that it’s never too late to strive to reach your dreams.
Sandra ran a daycare center out of her house for over 25 years. We heard from many individuals in the community who attended the center as children. Some have even gone on at this point to graduate school! We also heard from the mothers who commented about how much they appreciated the warm, nurturing environment she provided for their children so that they could feel comfortable going to their own jobs each day. The majority of her clients were young, often single mothers, and she helped them navigate the often overwhelming experience of being a new mom and provider while still trying to figure out one’s own life.
As I heard these stories, it reminded me that although Sandra wasn’t famous, didn’t run a company, or hold an elected office, she made a profound difference in numerous people’s lives through her chosen career of nurturing young children and supporting their parents. As you consider your path forward, keep in mind that there are countless ways to make a difference in the world, and while your future may hold a very public position (like being a corporate leader or congressional representative), it may also be something much more private, but equally important in making the world a better place.
